It’s wonderful when you find a special girl and you both develop some special feelings for each other, and it’s a SCAM when that girl only pretends to be a sweet and loving girlfriend, and secretly has an egoistic agenda with you.I am writing this article to be a wake up call for you my friend in case you’re in a relationship with a scammer, or so that you keep your eyes open to never get into one.What I’ve realized, in my experience and research, is that a Relationship Scam is not necessarily one where a girl just wants your money.The reality is that a scam can be dating or having a serious relationship with a girl who has a certain agenda with you, meaning that she’s dating you to get something out of you: it could be your money, it could be emotional satisfaction, it could be sexual pleasure, or even certain rights or a certain status, like “being the girlfriend of a star” or getting the citizenship of you country (especially if you’re American) or anything else, without actually being sincerely in love with you.These people are often sexual offenders, and they promise your teen gifts, parties and other incentives to get together.Internet predators used to primarily work chat rooms, but in the new age of social media, they often have fake My Space and Facebook accounts with convincing profile information and pictures.
Talk with your teen about the dangers of dating and educate her about the risks of certain behaviors.
That fear was directed toward men at bars, a classic setting where singles meet. Goodbar’ came out, a lot of women stopped going to bars. Adelman thinks online dating can actually be a good thing if used well, and has the potential to be safer than dating a stranger met in public.
That’s mainly because there’s potential of being on equal footing.
This is the case of a girl dating you long distance for a while until she builds some trust with you and then running her money extortion master plan on you: Her are some of the most common examples: And countless other similar sob stories, tragic events, unexpected urgencies or blackmailing that are only limited by the scammer’s creativity and intelligence.
These could be sometimes more or less elaborate and it’s up to you to uncover and avoid them.