Now I wasn't interested in the person above, however, her sentiment is shared by 95% of non-Black women on the online dating sites. Why would a non-Black woman want to date a guy like me (Black, a public worker-- so not earning very much money-- only slightly above avg looking..told he's handsome, 40--- so Black and Old... some of these women could be considered top tier... This would explain why women end up with the same types of men almost every time. I would, in all likelihood, have more success in a State like Texas (one of my adopted home States).
This individual was just bold enough to come out and say it. They just do it passively by not contacting Black men or not responding. ) when she can have a great White, Asian, Indian, or Hispanic guy..more money, nice toys (cars, etc), and she can avoid all of the staring and ugly comments..the backlash and embarrassment from friends and family? they won't have tainted skin (unfortunately there are people who think this way). PBS and Independent Lens, recently took a look at this subject (See Video). has to have tattoos, has to have this thing they call "swag" (just typing that was painful... and he has to be at least rough around the edges..a criminal record won't hurt either. I have known, read about..plenty of good looking women of color... But it's not just poor women w/ low education making these choices or who have these stupid dealbreakers. since I don't fit that image (the idiotic, aggressive, obnoxious rapper) I am not on radar screens of most Black women. I loved Texas for the few years I lived there growing up.
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I pulled the profile shot above from a popular online dating site. for some, just 20 or 30% thug is enough to satisfy their twisted fantasies or their biological urges..yes... A recent study concluded that women are basically tricked by biology into picking the wrong men...when they know he's the wrong one...
This is the kind of nonsense that I have to deal with as a Black guy. their sub-conscience (driven by hormones) drives them to make stupid choices.
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I would be lying if I said I didn't envy that somewhat). She thought it was strange that I paid for everything... Some want the rapper clones...while others want the rich Black doctor or attorney. it leaves me with interracial dating where the options are extremely few and far between. Florida (another adopted home State) is far more diverse than the Midwest... Even growing up in Kansas showed me a lot about different cultures, diversity, etc. Maybe it was just the community (a mixed race school and community may have altered my perception).
But there is a problem with the success angle (which could be a legitimate preference, although in my opinion it makes the women look completely shallow)... even when you take a black guys profile and correct for education (add a college education), and add a middle class income, and show that the guy is decent looking..has a wide variety of interests, he will still face discrimination for being Black. I am open to dating women from all ethnic, and cultural backgrounds. But I am better off for having lived there during some crucial years growing up.
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Posted: , Author: Ekasas 2013, i was just messaging a dude that didn't understand why black women are into white men now a days.